MARY & ROSS

Itinierary

Welcome Reception

Saturday, October 10th, 2026

7:00 to 9:00 in the evening
Il Fornaio
Carmel-by-the-Sea, California

Attire: Coastal Cocktail

Cocktails and desserts

The Wedding

Sunday, October 11th, 2026

Guest arrival: 4:15 in the afternoon
Bernardus Lodge and Spa
Carmel Valley, California

Attire: Garden formal

Dinner and dancing to follow

Travel

Flights

Monterey Regional Airport - 5 miles from Carmel-by-the-Sea.

San Jose International Airport - 55 miles from Carmel-by-the-Sea.

San Francisco International Airport - 80 miles from Carmel-by-the-Sea.

Accommodations

October is one of the busiest months in Carmel-by-the-Sea, Carmel Valley, and Monterey. We recommend reserving lodging at your earliest convenience.
While there are many wonderful options in the area, below are a few of our favorite spots:

For Your Stay

A few of our favorite things and places for you to visit while you're here!

Coffee Shops

Carmel Valley Coffee Roasting Co.: Great local coffee in Carmel-by-the-Sea
Ad Astra Bread Co.: Exceptional sourdough and pastries in Monterey
Captain + Stoker: Trendy specialty coffee shop and roaster in Monterey

Restaurants

Carmel Belle: Casual counter service in Carmel-by-the-Sea
Alta Bakery and Cafe: Wonderful pastries and light bites in Monterey
El Charrito: The best takeaway burritos in Monterey
The Pocket: Perfect for lunch or dinner in Carmel-by-the-Sea
Roy’s at Spanish Bay: Incredible views with lunch or dinner in Pebble Beach
Earthbound Farm Stand: Organic bites and farm grounds in Carmel Valley
La Bicyclette: A local favorite for brunch, lunch, and dinner in Carmel-by-the-Sea (reservations recommended)
Sandbar & Grill: Classic seafood right on the water in Monterey
Alvarado Street Brewery: Easy lunch or dinner in Monterey or Carmel-by-the-Sea
Corkscrew Cafe: Rustic lunch or dinner in Carmel Valley

Activities

Walk along Carmel Beach
Hike at Garland Ranch Regional Park in Carmel Valley
Golf at Carmel Valley Ranch, Poppy Hills, or Pebble Beach
Go wine tasting through Carmel-by-the-Sea
Visit Point Lobos State Natural Reserve
Visit the Monterey Bay Aquarium
Drive the Big Sur coast

Questions?

When do you recommend we book travel and accommodations?

October is one of the busiest months in Carmel-by-the-Sea, Carmel Valley, and Monterey. We recommend booking flights and accommodations at your earliest convenience.

Will the wedding be indoors or outdoors?

Weather permitting, events will primarily be held outdoors. While October is typically warm in Carmel Valley, we recommend bringing a light layer for the evening as temperatures cool.

What is the dress code?

We kindly ask that guests dress in garden formal attire.
For ladies, a floor-length or formal midi dress or jumpsuit. For gentlemen, light- or classic-dark-toned suit, dress shirt, tie optional.

Registry

Please know that your presence at our wedding is the only present we need! We are so incredibly grateful to have you in our lives.
For those who have kindly asked, we’ve set up a honeymoon fund for our first adventure as newlyweds, alongside a traditional registry for our home.

Honeymoon Fund

William Sonoma